This week’s featured Q&A comes from a Double Digit member:
Q: How do I explain to my adult children my desire to share my life with another when my husband’s passing of one year isn’t even here yet? The judgment and disassociation I feel as awful.
Channeled from Adironnda through Marilyn Harper:
A: First of all, dearest, and this is for everyone, not just one, even though it sounds like a personal question, take a deep breath. The judgment is also coming from yourself, for you are indeed putting that energy out there. Therefore, your children may respond to that energy and reflect on what you expect of them. You see, that is one of the keys with children. When you expect them to misbehave, they will. When you expect them to be magnificent, that at least gives them a chance.
With your children, your grief period does not have a time limit. You can certainly start another relationship while still grieving your past relationship, which could cause you not to acknowledge your grief. We don’t know where you are from that standpoint, but your children love you and love your spouse, and they have to understand.
You get the opportunity to explain to them how you are feeling with an open heart. And do not expect them to prejudge you, not expect the worst from them. Instead, expect as you are communicating with an open heart, as you are acknowledging them and their open heart.
We believe that you can share anything with anyone when you are coming from a place of, “I love you, and I want to say something to you, but I don’t know how, so I’m just going to say it.” Understand that they love you and want you to be happy, and they also love your spouse.
Of course, they’re going through that grieving period as well. Understand that there’s a transformation in the next few months. That transformation is a perfect time for you to transform yourself. You may be going into a relationship for many different reasons. Ask yourself, what is truly important? Then communicate that with an open heart, ego-free — Adironnda & The Council of Light.
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