This week’s featured Q&A comes from a Double Digit member:
Q: What can you say to someone you love who is stuck in their story?
Channeled from Adironnda through Marilyn Harper:
A: It is sometimes a bit challenging to help someone understand their own story, that they are the creator of their Universe. When they’re stuck in the middle of their contract, when they’re stuck in the middle of their stuff, that’s piled up. And they have nothing left there, no connection, no people, and they feel like they’re spiraling downward. It’s difficult sometimes to say, “Why do you keep telling that same story over and over? Because every time you do, it brings it all back to you.”
But you see, you get the opportunity to first love them right where they are. You get the opportunity to ever so gently remind them when they are in the middle of their dramatic tale; they’re experiencing all of that trauma, all of that drama, all of that connection, all of that disconnect all over again.
Every single time they tell the story, even though they may just be repeating something that they’ve done their whole life. Their body, cells, brain, and magnificence believe that it is experiencing it again, so it brings it all up again.
How do you share that with them? First, you ever so gently share that information. It is proven scientifically in the brain for the neural pathways that when a story is repeated, the same synopsis happens in the brain as happened in the original trauma. So you can explain that to them scientifically.
People tend to believe in science over spirituality; at least some people do, some people don’t but explain that. Then ask them, what are they receiving from repeating that story? What are they rewarding their own body with by sharing that story again?
Then ask them if they’re willing to rewrite it. Ask if they are willing to find a new story, find something good that came from that traumatic situation, tell that story, and see what happens in their life—Adironnda & The Council of Light
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