What If My Spouse Is Driving Me Crazy?

What if I have a spouse, a child, a co-worker or a friend that is DRIVING ME CRAZY with some of their “awful” personal characteristics?

What if I sit down and make a list all of their negative qualities and then look at the list and go “OH NO” because I also have these same qualities?

What if I list all of their positive qualities and then see that I have the same positive qualities?

What if I realized that I could not see a quality in another if I did not have that quality in myself?